Depression and suicide are claiming more lives faster than expected. There are many people that are depressed and are quiet about it which is so sad. Child of the Most High God, silence is not the solution and pre- mature death is not your potion. Speaking with the right people will do a whole lot of difference in your life. A human being is a community being by default, God that created the heavens and earth said it is not good for MAN TO BE ALONE(Genesis 2:18). If the creator that designed every human being said so, then it is so! I have watched depression robe lives of people I know and their mental health destroyed of many. Regardless of your age, depression is real.
Oxford dictionary definition:
Depression : feelings of severe despondency and dejection. (misery, sadness, unhappiness, sorrow, gloom, low spirits..etc)
Depression is an illness. It is real. Diseases do not know religion. Even christians do get depressed. Yes, please! They do because they are human beings.
- If you are thinking: People will laugh at me.
We serve a God that is the doctor of all doctors but He also allows doctors to exist because we are co-creators. Friend if you are depressed, ashamed of it, do not want people to know but you are suffering in silence. You need to find help ASAP and it is not something to be ashamed of. That´s why is it written in the Holy Bible, ” By your stripes, we are healed(1 Peter 2:24,Isaiah 53:5). If illnesses where something to be ashamed of then why did Jesus spend a whole great part of his ministry healing?
“You are robbing yourself of what is your potion”- Healing
2. If you are thinking: What is the point of getting help?
As a Child Of God. You have an appointed purpose specifically assigned to you, to accomplish in the body of Christ(Jeremiah 29:11). You are alive because you have an appointment to do for the GLORY of GOD. Your contribution to His Kingdom. The point of getting help is your not created to be an island too. Man needs man(Genesis 2:18). If you are sick, you need professional help both from the doctors who have been called to that area of expertise and the leaders of the church to pray for you. Both go hand in hand, working together for your good.
James 5:14-16
14 Is any sick among you? let him call for the elders of the church; and let them pray over him, anointing him with oil in the name of the Lord:15 And the prayer of faith shall save the sick, and the Lord shall raise him up; and if he have committed sins, they shall be forgiven him. 16Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.
3. If you are thinking: Self medication is enough.
Think for a minute, imagine depression like a tree. It is standing within you firmly with deep roots. Just because you can cut off the branches and shade the leaves today, does not mean they won´t grow back tomorrow. That is what your doing.
Cutting yourself secretly until blood flows is not the solution. Self prescription won´t cut it. Alcohol will wear off and reality will be ready to greet you once you open your eyes. Faking the smile all day around the crowd will end when you get home and look in the mirror. Buying everything fancy might work for a while but how long will it take before you find out there is a difference between what you need and what you want? Involving in sexual immorality from partner to partner will not fill that empty void. Trying to make so many friends and trust none, will depress you the more. Suicide is not the solution either, believe it or not hell is real. Are you really ready to meet your maker when you reflect on your daily life? It is painful but true, you can not run from you! Deal with the issue now! Make up your mind. Today is a gift, take action now! Your life is too precious to go by with out joy.
John 10:10
10 The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.
4. If you are thinking: I do not have time for this, I am too busy.
Well, you have got one life. And one life only! Everything else you think right now is more important than your health will not matter when you lose the ability to do it all. Be it work or people. Work will end when you lose the ability to do it. People often walk away at times in life when others are ill. If they love you, they should encourage you to seek help.
Proverbs 17:17
17 A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.
5. If you are thinking: I have gotten all the help I can. But still, I have seen no improvements.
I testify to the goodness of God. God is faithful. Give it all to Him. Have faith and hope in the LORD. Cast your cares upon the LORD, for He cares for you(1 Peter 5:7). Believe in God for there is nothing impossible for Him(Luke 1:37). Pray for strength during this trying time as you wait upon the LORD. Isaiah 40:31 -But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.
Yes, healing might take time but that does not mean it´s not coming. Even though healing does not come, the peace of God will be with you to help you get through this trying time. Pray for the peace of the LORD that surpasses all human understanding. (Philippians 4:7)
1 Thessalonians 5:17-18
17 Pray without ceasing.
18 In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.
To be continued.. God love you.